Family Life in the Ancien Régime
- Nuclear
- Children lived at home til teens
- Neolocalism - left to pursue servanthood
- Married late, had children late (mid 20s)
- Families rebuilt quickly after death of Father
Households in the Ancien Regime in Western Europe consisted of the nuclear family, or a father, mother, and their children. One did not find large extended families under one roof. Children were not always welcome additions to the household and were often sent away from birth to be wet-nursed. This came from probably two factors. Mothers were an integral part of the labor of the household and did not have the time to focus on child rearing and high infant mortality rates offered no incentive for the type of mother-child bonding that takes place today. When children returned to the household they would live there until their teenage years when they were expected to leave, learn a trade, and become economically self-sufficient. Boys would stay longer sometimes to learn a trade from their father. Girls would often leave to pursue servanthood, working in another household. This work allowed them to earn enough for a dowry (money contributed to a marriage). This explains why women often married and had children later than we sometimes imagine. It also explains the nuclear household. Given the life expectancy at the time, parents would rarely live to see their grandchildren grow up. The economic viability of the household was extremely fragile and the death of a father was often disaster as the widow and her children would often have to depend on public assistance or relatives to get by. Consequently, widows remarried quickly and household often had half siblings or step siblings.