Are you a spouse killer?

This Guy did

Help me kill my wife

"Hey Shayne how's it going. You remember you said that you would help me kill my wife. I'm going to take you up on that offer."

Many husbands and wives are living lives of quiet desperation.
They are dying or have died romantic deaths
.

There is no such thing as a bad marriage

1-10 Where is your marriage?

Types of deaths

• Commission/ommission
• Direct/indirect
• Intentional/unintentional

Why did you get married?

Function of marriage?

We are created to recharge, restore, replenish, revitalise and re-energise each other.

Killers

• Poison - The tongue
• Attitudes - Anger, bitterness, resentment, hate
• What we fail to do

Good/bad marriages

Invisible killers

• Doing things to make spouse feel:
• Stupid
• Embarrass
• Worthless
• Insignificant
• Inadequate

Eph 4:31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

Bitterness - Pakria - Poison

Results - Defilement Heb 12

“Let all bitterness, ... be put away from you And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:31-32

D - Decide to be KIND and caring

N - Never

I - Indicate your Boundaries

K - Know that all is for good

Types of death

Types

• Physical vs Spiritual
• Intentional vs unintentional
• Commission vs omission

Invisible source of life and death - human

Thou shall not KILL

I am come that they might have life and have it more abundantly