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PEOPLE SMART
By: Preston Fisher
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TRUST FUND
It’s a metaphor for building trust with people that operates like a bank account.
Making deposits builds trust and making withdrawals decrease it.
Some examples of withdrawals are being mean, lying, breaking promises, talking behind another’s back, blaming or justifying.
Some examples of deposits are being nice, telling the truth, keeping promises, speaking well of those who are absent, and apologizing.
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COMMUNICATION
Most people think that the main way we communicate is through our words.
We communicate the most through our facial expressions, body posture, hand gestures; your dress, appearance, and personal hygiene.
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THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT COMMUNICATION
You cannot “not” communicate
You cannot “not” make an impression
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Mark Fischer
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TORNADOES OF NEGATIVITY
A positive/negative person or group tends to influence others in positive/negative ways.
Identity the tornado as such
Listen without taking it to heart
Respond by saying “I hear you”
Leave the tornado scene
Take more drastic measures
Consider expanding your friendship
Clarify your feelings
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RESPONDING TO HITS
Hits are unexpected random, and negative events that can trigger a response or a reaction.
Stability and resiliency help you respond in your own Best Interest.
View every “hit” as “it’s my turn”.
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Aaron Burden
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CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Toe-to-Toe is trying to win at the expense of the opponent’s loss.
Heart-to-Heart is seeking a win for both themselves and the other person.
Conflicts are usually resolved or reduced by effective listening and talking.
At the heart of conflicts are misunderstandings.
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INSTANT REPLAY
Top 20’s desire and know how to make something better after they have made something worse.
If we are interacting with someone who isn’t familiar with the term “Instant Replay,” we can ask for an Instant Replay in other ways.
Our pride or need to be right may block us from improving a situation or relationship.
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FEEDBACK
Top 20’s rely heavily on feedback: information that helps us to see how we’re doing or where we’re going.
Top 20’s are concerned with getting personal feedback. They want information on how to do something better.
Critical feedback says, “CHANGE”.
Affirming feedback says, “DON’T CHANGE”.
Personal feedback says, “YOU CAN IMPROVE”.
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GETTING FEEDBACK
They ask for it.
They listen openly and are nonjudgmental.
They say it back.
They thank the person for giving them feedback.
They decide on the value of the feedback.
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GIVING FEEDBACK
They communicate their sincere intent in trying to benefit the other.
They seek permission to give the feedback.
They start by presenting the issue and listening to what the other person has to say about it.
They then offer direct feedback.
They offer to problem solve.
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Ben White
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LEADERSHIP
Top 20’s look to lead others and add something of value to the lives of other people.
Star Qualities and Negative Mental Habits are equally contagious.
EQ is even more important for people involved in leadership positions.
The Leadership Continuum: Interdependence, Independence, Dependence.
Leader: a person who made everyone on the team a better player.
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Markus Spiske
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HANGOUTS
Where you hang out can make a difference in your life.
You will never be happy unless you are becoming who you are.
There’s nothing wrong with Pleasing Other People as long as you don’t forget your core or neglect your actual purpose of being your True Self.
Yes or No’s make a difference.
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BECOMING
Law of Attraction: The positive or negative results I have in my life are attracted to me by the person I have become.
Success isn’t something we reach out for.
Remember that what you become is more important than what you achieve.
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THE END!
Source Used: Top 20 Teens Book
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