disagreeing appropriately

1. look at the person

• Looking at the person shows that u are paying attention.
• Don't stare or make faces.
• Keep looking at the person throughout your conversation. 
• Be pleasant and smile.
• Look at the person as u would a friend.

2. use a pleasant voice

• The person is most likely to listen to u if u use pleasant voice.
• Speak slowly and clearly. Don't mumble.
• Use short sentences. They are easily understood.     
• Keep a comfortable distance.
• Smile  and be friendly.

3. say "i understand how u feel"

• Saying that gets the conversation off to a positive start.
• Plan what you're going to say before u say it.
• If u feel uneasy about what to say. Practice.
• Discuss concern as part of conversation not confrontation
• Be sincere

4. tell why u feel different

• using specific words and reasons avoids confusion.
• use as much detailed info as possible.
• be prepared to back up what u say.
• practice what your going to say.
• Remember to think before you speak.

5. give a reason

• Your disagreement will carry more weight.
• Be sure that your reason makes sense.
• Support your reason with facts and details.
• One or two reasons are usually enough.
• stay calm during the conversation.

6. listen to the other person

• Listening shows you respect what to what they have to say.
• Don't look away or make faces.
•  Dont interrupt. 
• Stay calm.
• Dont argue.