Maybe He Just Couldn't Be The One
Published on Apr 09, 2017
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moving past your break-up
maybe he just couldn't be the one
Anyone who has
been through
DIVORCE
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It goes beyond
having your
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When you have been
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COMMITTED
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built on a
DREAM
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hOME
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You have collected
furniture and dishes
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You've been on
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You planned
and imagined
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I remember
the day I moved
out of my home.
I was the first to arrive
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I stepped in
and was immediately
engulfed by memories
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This was the place
I had painted
decorated
retreated to
loved.
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HOW do you
move on
from that?
DIVORCE
it's like a person
has been ripped
from your side
when they were joined
to you
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LIFE
as you
know it
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But the truth
is this...
We all feel
the same excruciating
pain.
And all of us
ask the same
questions
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Why is this happening to me?
Why couldn't
he love me?
Why wasn't I
the one he stayed
and fought for?
Why was I such a fool to have given
my heart away to
someone like him?
What's wrong
with me?
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All justified.
All normal.
Anger
Denial
Depression
3 of the 4
Stages of Grieving
Far too many
Women
NEVER COME BACK
From DIVORCE
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I had to come
out of that
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The saddest thing
of all is that
many women
choose to stay
in the
Waiting Room
THE REST OF
THEIR LIVES
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They go back there
and spend time
nurturing their hurt
their disppointments
resentments
and, ultimately,
their FEAR
To remain here...
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They have no idea
that, if they
were to turn
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they would see
the walk-way
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The Door
to the
back room
must close
What happened for me
between the
Back room
and living now in the
sun room?
#1
Questions are important.
Our Beliefs
about who we are
what life is about.
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Why wasn't I enough?
Why couldn't he
love me?
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When you ask
with a genuinely
curious heart
the answers to
these questions
will give you
surprising insights.
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Here's the thing...
Not all men
can come in.
Sometimes he's just not
in a place
where he's able to.
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#2
ACCEPT
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Unless I accepted
the past in a way
that meant I could
actually look back
with love
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It just simply
made me angry.
It seemed impossible,
I still hurt too much.
It wasn't my fault
and, after all,
if he had been
different.
I would have been
different.
Everything would have
been different.
been different.
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just let it be
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Fear would well up
inside again
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I began to ask
better questions.
I began to talk
to a few
close people and
do some research.
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None of them
were able to
be there for me.
They just couldn't be.
It's who they were.
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#3
I'm going to give you
some ideas
for things you can do
to let someone go.
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It takes a
"physical act"
of Letting Go
to convince
your brain
that it's done.
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Let him go
Idea 1
Write a letter
to each of your ex's
in your life
that let you down -
but don't
send them.
Talk to them
by telling them
as many things
that you can
think of
that begin with
these statements...
I wish that...
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I'm sorry that...
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I'm angry that...
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I'm afraid that...
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Then tell him/them
that you are
releasing them
letting them go.
Then
let him go.
Part 2 of this
Write a letter
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back to you
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from each
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of them
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filled with things
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you wish
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you could have heard
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them say.
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Let him go
Idea 2
"BURY"
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your relationship
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When you feel
the tug back
into feeling sorry
for yourself again
or anger
or sadness
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Let him go
Idea 3
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Write something
on each balloon
that you are
releasing
about your ex
or your past
relationship.
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the further away
you find yourself
from the relationship
the man
the connection
until it's gone...
barely able to be
seen
or felt.
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Let him go
Idea 4
Choose a song
or poem
that symbolizes
you
standing up for
yourself
and moving forward.
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she let go
Let him go
Idea 5
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There's a reason
you are in the
WAITING ROOM
right now.
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make it your aim
no matter what
to find yourself
in a place
where you can
love passionately
from a wide open heart!
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Simple steps toward letting him go
