Buliding Trust
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THE TRUST FUND METAPHOR
- This concept explains how trust is bulit or lost in a relationship.
- This operates like a savings account.
- Example: Maddy smiles at someone she would earn 50 dollars, but then she talked bad about someone. So she then would lose 30 dollars.
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MAKING DEPOSITS
- Anytime you are nice to someone you are depositing trust into that relationship.
- On the other hand, withdrawals occur when we are unkind.
- Examples (nice): Smiling or saying hello to someone, giving someone a compliment, and saying "Thank You"
- Examples (unkind): being sarcastic or ignoring someone
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WHAT'S IT WORTH
- Any withdrawl of trust from a relationship is a serious matter.
- Depending on the serverityof the withdrawl, numerous deposists are necessary to make up for the trust lost.
- Example: Taking the trash out three days in a row in no way makes up for taking your parent's car.
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BULIDING TRUST WITH PARENTS
- Most kids argue about the Little Things with their parents.
- These Little Things are important only becausw they are attached to Big Things.
- The Trust Fund can really help you if your parents don't trust you.
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THE BIG THINGS
- Big Things are the those things that are most important to us.
- If you don't have those Big Things then your relationship will be rocky and not good.
- Space is very important because you need to be independent, but also stay connected to the relationship.
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