The Goal
Published on Feb 11, 2016
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Empathy
can be developed with practice
there is hope, with enough practice replacing angry thoughts and actions with calm thoughts and empathetic responses
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So....
A dozen Invitations
average daily invites to get angry
You are not unusual of you feel the invite to anger every day......
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Rate the Invite
- 0-1 trivial
- 2-4 annoying
- 5-7 troublesome
- 8-9 very serious
- 10 life threatening
goal is to buy some time
rate seriousness
reconsider if evaluation is too high
ask other show they would rate the situation if there is an opportunity for this
respond with actions that fit the situation
rate seriousness
reconsider if evaluation is too high
ask other show they would rate the situation if there is an opportunity for this
respond with actions that fit the situation
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Mirror
expressions and postures
Helps you take focus off yourself and may help put other person at ease
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Develop Curiosity
about others
learn to ask questions about others.....genuine interest in others
coaching training teaches you to ask questions without being directive or invasive
coaching training teaches you to ask questions without being directive or invasive
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Care
enough about other's pain
enough by not adding to it......for example by deciding to not yell or call them names......
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Forgive
you really that different from the person who offended you
What was going on in their life at the time of the offense
Is ti possible to forgive others as you have been forgiven?
What was going on in their life at the time of the offense
Is ti possible to forgive others as you have been forgiven?
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