PASTORAL OVERSIGHT

OVERARCHING MINDSETS

• CC and cc
• Good kids to disciples
• Moment vs Process
• Authority — Christian compassion
• Winning them

PRIMARY ROLES

• Shared authority
• Oversight for all sisters
• End: personal & program

PERSONAL

• valued & contributed
• concerns listened to & addressed
• feel they belong & are supported

PROGRAM

• Preparation: input, service meetings
• Execution - orienting, supervise when needed, feedback, task

TYPICAL SCENARIOS

• Don’t know how to handle
• Ongoing life challenge
• Decision toward a goal
• Acknowledgement or realization

LISTEN FIRST

• Listen
• Am I the right one?
• If not, who?
• If me, what is best way?
• Where/when if not now?

CONVERSATION

• Understand, not judge
• Respond to both the situation and HOW she is handling it
• It’s okay not to know what to say
• Encouragement, guidance, “correction”

PRINCIPLES + IMPLICATIONS

• Positive peer environment
• Quality vs quantity time
• Relational approach
• Service
• Transitioning well

COACHING

• Send talk outlines
• Secure drafts & run through
• Review drafts
• Give feedback