Confirmation = Beginning
It’s all about helping youth, parents, and the faith community see the reception of confirmation as a beginning. My friend, Sister Eileen McCann, CSJ, former Coordinator for Youth and Young Adults for the United States Catholic Conference of Bishops, prepared a community of youth to receive confirmation this past year. At one point, she asked the young people if any of them were getting their driver’s
license. She invited them to describe the process of getting a permit,
taking drivers education classes, practicing behind the wheel, and
preparing for the tests. She asked them, “What would you think of
someone who goes through all of the trouble of getting their license
but never drives?” “That would be stupid.” “What a waste of time.”
“Why, would anyone do that?” Then she told them, “That’s exactly
what you would be doing if you let your reception of confirmation
be the end of your participation in our parish!”
Preparing youth to receive God’s gift of strengthening in the
Sacrament of Confirmation is part of the ongoing evangelization and
conversion for adolescents. We can give this preparation process a good home by situating it within the youth ministry, catechesis, and faith life of the Church— connecting youth more deeply to the universal church, the local church as diocese, the parish, and the domestic church of their family. We situate confirmation preparation as part of youth ministry, and we utilize the people, ministries, worship, service, and community life of the parish as part of preparation. We support families in this important moment so that they continue to share faith, pray together and do service together.
Knowing that we are privileged to help youth prepare for confirmation, we connect, we engage, we witness, and we provide space for prayer, faith growth, service, and reflection. Then we stand back and get out of the way of the Holy Spirit, who has plans for these young people that are beyond our imagination!