#1 Place to find a space

Where have you been looking?

Where do you think is that best place to look for someone?

Think of a couple and say where they found each other?

Wrong question: HOW not WHERE

Before I tell you - Jill

It all starts in the mind

Where you are romantically is largely the results of what's happening in your BRAIN!

Single best location to find someone Starts with how and what you think

If the ideal person showed up now - how would your mind respond

The real problem is not even in the conscious mind

Jane shocking discovery

Genogram

What you don't know and your family didn't tell you

Are you from a high/low nurture family

You are very likely to recreate the type of family you grew up in

What to do

Forgiveness

What do you want to keep and what would like discard

The Josiah syndrome

Low nurture = A.N.A

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Best place

Your mind

Spirit communicates to you mind

Spirit communicates to you mind

You will hear a voice saying - This is the way [one] walk in it!

Your mind knows best

HOW not WHERE?

You answer will come

• Devotion and meditation
• During flow activities
• Walk, dancing, shower, gardening, cycling
• Out of the blue...
• Serendipity
• Providence

Does that mean you should not search

9 Places to find someone without stressing yourself out

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind...Rom 12:2

For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee. – Proverbs 23:7

his own thought-world, each man holds the key to every condition, good or bad, that enters into his life, and that, by working patiently and intelligently upon his thoughts, he may remake his life, and transform his circumstances. James Allen

Mind is the Master power that moulds and makes,

And Man is Mind, and evermore he takes

The tool of Thought, and, shaping what he wills,

Brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills: —

He thinks in secret, and it comes to pass:

Environment is but his looking-glass. James Allen