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PRESENTATION OUTLINE

THE ART OF CONVERSATION

A GUIDE FOR WALLFLOWERS

WAIT YOUR TURN

  • wait for a pause
  • eye contact
  • subtle visual cue
  • gentle contact
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SMALL TALK

  • general filler topics
  • weather
  • pop culture
  • events
  • low risk sharings

HAVE SOMETHING WORTHY TO SAY

  • research
  • specifics
  • controversial
  • fight cognitive dissonance
  • Fight confirmation bias

IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU

  • ask questions to glean specifics
  • listen and avoid multitasking
  • paraphrase to clarify
  • Yes or No questions are lame
  • superfical to riskier - gauge comfort
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IT'S A TENNIS MATCH

  • invite input ... be subtle at first
  • allow for tangents
  • allow for segues
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"It's much easier to be interested in others than it is to convince them to be interested in you"
D Carnegie

Respect the person
not the idea

Forget yourself
avoid boosting your ego

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embrace
silence

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STORIES

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thx
is never a bad word

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