Chapter 3 ''Human beings are free except when humanity needs them.Maybe humanity needs you,to do something.Maybe humanity needs me-to find out what you're good for.We might both do despicable things.Ender, but if human kind survives, then we were good tools,''
Chapter 13 ''in the moment when i truly understand him well enough to defeat him,then in that very moment i also love him. i think it's impossible to really understand somebody ,want they want, what they believe, and not love thenm the way they love themselves."
Chapter 14 "Ender, we didn't go to them first,they came to us. if they were going to leave us alone, they could have done it a hundred years ago, before the first invasion."
Chapter15 "I am not a happy man, ender,humanity does not ask us to be happy. it merely asks us to be brilliant on it's behalf. survival first, then happiness as we can manage it."
Chapter 13 "Welcome to the human race.Nobody controls his own life,Ender.The best you can do is choose to fill the roles given you by good people, by people who love you."