"...DON'T GIVE UP."
Audrey Lee (Mother)
When you hear the words "American Dream", what do you think of?
"A house, two kids, a college education, a great job, vacations once a year, and you know, living a comfortable life."
What was your dream as a kid?
"My dream as a kid was to be a pediatrician, get married and have five children so that they could make their own basketball team. I really liked basketball."
What stood in the way of that dream?
"I got discouraged along the way and I did not do well in chemistry in middle school. I didn't do as well as I thought I should have in Calculus, which was a B. I kinda discouraged myself from a medical degree, which I regret. I didn't have five kids because after having two, I realized how much work it is to have children and how much money it costs to have kids. So, I decided two was enough. In order to give my two the best quality of life, I decided to stop at two. I did get married, though."
After being told the historical definition of the American Dream, do you think that it still lives today?
"Oh, I got the answer wrong. Yes, I do think that a persons goals can be achieved through hard work and determination. Absolutely."
Was it as alive when you were growing up?
"Yeah, I felt like I saw it on tv. You know, the theme was always running through there tv shows we watched as kids...There's this formula that Asian Americans follow, you know. You get good grades in high school so you can get into a prestigious college. Then you can get a professional career such as a doctor or lawyer so that you can live a comfortable life. You know, it's like you suffer now so you can get that great job later."
What would you say to someone who wants to achieve their dreams?
"I would say, it's really important to have self discipline, perseverance and to not be discouraged. If you don't do as well as you think you should in high school, don't give up. Don't worry about good grades and what kind of college you get into. It's more important to find something you love to do and just work towards that goal."