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How To Be A Good Boyfriend

Published on Nov 18, 2015

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HOW TO BE A GOOD BOYFRIEND

TEEN EDITION: WRITTEN BY GIRLS EVERYWHERE

UNDERSTAND RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T EASY

  • You boys seem to think relationship are supposed to be easy
  • This is far from the truth. They take time and effort
  • Think of it like school, effort must be made in order to succeed
  • This also means that sometime you have to focus more on grades
  • Unfortunately that means cutting down on the video games too.
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SPEND TIME WITH HER!

  • This may be the most important thing on here
  • You need to spend time with your girlfriend no matter what
  • If you don't she will feel neglected and under appreciated
  • This may mean you have to cut down on bro time and game time
  • You may have to challenge your parents a bit, make them understand she is important

UNDERSTAND HOW SHE FEELS

  • I know this seems like the impossible but it's actually quite easy.
  • If she looks like she is upset and you ask her about she will either say no or "I'm fine"
  • If she says "I'm fine" she's probably lying and really wants you to talk to her
  • If she pushes you a way back off a bit but try again cause she really just wants to be with you
  • This may be confusing but we are girls and we just want someone to love and support us
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MAKE HER FEEL IMPORTANT TO YOU

  • Saying I love you isn't always enough
  • She needs to know she is important to you in more ways than one
  • Involve her in things you do inside and outside of school
  • Ask for her opinion on something's and don't argue with her
  • Sometime you will inevitably say something stupid, you need to make sure she knows.
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KNOW HOW TO APOLOGIZE RIGHT

  • Saying "I'm sorry" isn't always enough either, especially if its not the first time
  • You need to show her how truly sorry you really are, this may involve doing things you don't like
  • For example, buying her flowers, sending her apology notes, or other ways of showing you love her
  • Sometimes a more drastic step may have to be taken and may hurt your poor little pride
  • You may have to publicly admit you made a mistake and ask her to forgive you that way instead

CANCELING PLANS

  • Canceling plans is a huge no no when it comes to a girl
  • If you plan to do something like go to the movies or a dance you better go
  • If you don't there is a flood of different emotions she will feel. None of them good
  • If you absolutely have to cancel you better call her and have a good reason why
  • Most girls are understanding, but if you just leave her out in the open she will feel worse
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MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER

  • First off don't tell her you love her unless you absolutely mean it
  • Make sure she knows how much you love her and care everyday
  • Leave her notes in her locker or other places you know she will be
  • I know this sounds stupid but girls love hearing song or poems dedicated to them
  • Flowers and chocolates are a bonus but if money is tight the notes always help
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DON'T MAKE PROMISES YOU CAN'T KEEP

  • For girls a big pet peeve is when you make promises and don't see it through
  • If there isn't above a 90 percent chance you can keep it don't promise it
  • If she asks you to make a promise that you don't think you can keep tell her and explain why
  • She should be understanding and commend you on being honest with her about it
  • If you have something you are afraid to tell her, tell her. she may be more upset if you don't
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JUST A FEW MORE TIPS

  • If you say you are gonna call her later, she expects it on that day. Video chat with her sometime she'll love seeing you
  • Not seeing each other on birthdays or special holidays is inexcusable
  • A girl will only give you so many second chances until she realizes you just aren't worth the trouble
  • If you show jealousy towards another guy in her life she will actually be glad because it shows you really care
  • If a girl is wrong don't correct her and make her feel stupid, just agree to disagree and if you are right don't rub it in

HOPE THIS HELPED YOU BECOME A BETTER BF!

THANKS FOR READING THIS, FROM EVERY GIRLFRIEND OUT THERE
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