Level Up: #LGBTQ Ally, 2.0

Published on Nov 18, 2015

Originally presented as part of the Diversity Summit at Carthage College. 29 Oct 2015. Resources are cited in the notes section.

PRESENTATION OUTLINE

Level Up

LGBTQ Ally Skills, 2.0
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Question Assumptions
Understand Their Needs
Educate
Empower
Refer

QUESTION assumptions

Assumptions are the termites of relationships - H. Winkler
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"You must stick to your convictions, but be ready to abandon your assumptions."
- Denis Waitely -

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educate

Yourself & others

History Lesson: IMportant LGBTQ Events

  • 1900s -1950
  • 1950s -1970s
  • 1980s - 2000s
  • 2010s - Present Day
  • The FUTURE

History Lesson : The Rainbow Flag

  • Hot pink: sexuality
  • Red: Life
  • Orange: Healing
  • Yellow: Sunlight
  • Green: Nature
  • Turquoise: Magic/Art
  • Indigo/Blue: Serenity/Harmony
  • Violet: Spirit

Important Policies

ENDA: EMPLOYMENT NON-DISCRIMINATION ACT

  • would protect private and public employees from employment discrimination on the basis of perceived or actual sexual orientation and gender identity.

Equality Act of 2015

  • covers 8 major areas for which LGBT people are currently not federally protected: public accommodations, public education, employment, housing, federal funding, jury service, legal protections, and credit.
  • Amend the 1964 Civil Rights Act to include sexual orientation and gender identity among the other protected classes.
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Know your STate: Wisconsin

  • Partial support (sexual orientation only) - Housing laws, Employment, Hate crimes, School laws
  • Full support: Marriage equality, Gender Marker Change (drivers license and birth certificates)
  • No support: Transgender healthcare, anti-bullying laws
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Know your STate: illinois

  • Partial support: Gender marker change (driver's licenses only.)
  • Full support: Employment laws, Housing laws, Marriage equality, Hate crimes laws, Anti-bullying laws, School laws
  • No support: Transgender healthcare.
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Sites to know

  • Campus Pride/ Campus Pride Index (@campuspride)
  • GLSEN (@GLSEN)
  • GLAAD (@glaad)
  • HRC (@HRC)
  • HuffPost: Gay Voices (@huffpostgay)
  • The Advocate (@TheAdvocateMag)
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Important Dates

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Learn from each other

Tips for Allies: http://www.straightforequality.org/document.doc?id=893

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understand their needs

Emotional intelligence

  • Perceiving Emotions
  • Reasoning with Emotions
  • Understanding Emotions
  • Managing Emotions
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sHARPEN yOUR eMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

  • Know what you know (& what you don't)
  • Stay positive and realistic
  • Recognize your own filters

sHARPEN yOUR eMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

  • Judgement free zone!
  • Focus on cues
  • Connect feels & thoughts

Levels of ally-ing

  • Consider their needs (and your comfort level)
  • Behind the scenes
  • On the perimeter
  • Front and center
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EMPOWER

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refer

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Remember these:

  • To everything learn, learn, learn
  • Lean into Emotional Intelligence
  • Empower with purpose
  • Refer with intention

Questions?

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