"I'm going to win and you're going to lose."

- I use position, power,
credentials, possessions, or
personality to get my way.

- I care only about myself.

- I put down others so I look
better.

- I compete rather than
cooperate.

"Walk all over me; everyone else does."

- I lack courage to express or
ask for what I need.

- I am often intimidated; I give in and give up easily.

- I'm motivated by acceptance
and popularity.

- I bury a lot of my feelings.