1. "I know who you are Mer. Don't let them try to change you." -Aspen
2. "The reason you're still here is because he refuses to lose hope." -Marlee
Aspen knows that he won't have America, but he still wants her to be the woman she has been since the beginning. Marlee knows Prince Maxon loves America, and that's why she's still in the Selection.
Example: "I was afraid. Afraid that Maxon's feelings weren't as genuine as they seemed. Afraid of what being a princess might mean for me. Afraid of losing Aspen."
Not only was the word "afraid" mentioned many times in this phrase, but America has felt this way —over and over again—throughout the novel.
Example: "That little feather of a kiss sent me back to a memory that felt years old. He had kissed my hand like that my first night in the palace when I'd yelled at him; when he'd let me stay anyway."
This memory moment shows that America still wants to stay in the palace with Prince Maxon and still wants a chance to become the Princess of Illea.