The Compassionate Way

What is compassion and what is involved in compassionate acts?

PRESENTATION OUTLINE

THE COMPASSIONATE WAY

BY PASTOR MEL BAGA, DMIN

USING THE GOLDEN RULE WISELY

Henry Gensler, Jr. Ethics and the Golden Rule, 4.
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KNOW

"How would my action affect others?"
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IMAGINE

"What would it be like to have this done to me in the same situation?"

TEST FOR CONSISTENCY

"Am I willing in the same situation to have this be done to me?"
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ACT

"I will act only as I'm willing to be treated in the same situation."
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6 COMPONENTS OF COMPASSION

Frank Rogers, Jr., Practicing Compassion, 22-27.
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1. Paying attention

Seeing others in their own terms rather than through the filter of your own agendas, judgments, and reactions conditioned by your own desires, feelings, and sensitivities.

"Be sympathetic".
1 Peter 3:8

The Greek word "sympathés" denotes "understanding and sympathetic participation in the destiny of others in all situation." TDNT 5:935.

2. Understanding empathically

Being moved in your depths by another's experience to the point where you understand the heartaches and longings at the core of another person's behavior and experience.
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"You shall love your neighbor as yourself."
Mathew 22:39.

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3. Loving unconditionally

All-accepting, nonjudgmental, all-embracing presence.
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"Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. Matthew 44, 45.

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4. Sensing holiness

The realization that your acts of compassion are like portals into a kingdom where grace is normative; that your actions are part of a larger whole.

"Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."
Matthew 5:16

5. Eagerness in seeing others flourish

Yearning for and delighting in the flourishing of wounded and suffering persons, so that they enjoy life to the fullest.

"I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
John 10:10

6. Actions that restore

The cementing of compassionate sentiment into action. Compassion does not wish someone all the best, then walk away.  Rather, compassion is praying with your hands and legs.

"If someone is caught in sin...restore that person gently...Carry each other’s burdens". Galatians 6:1-2

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