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The Right Person Myth

Published on Nov 18, 2015

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MYTH:

  • If I marry the right person everything will be alright.
  • If/When I meet the right person everything will be alright.

WHAT IS DATING?

  • How does society define dating?
  • How does God define dating?

1 Corinthians 13

Love is patient
Love is kind
Love does not boast
Love does not dishonor
Love is not self seeking

PATIENT

  • Love is never pushy
  • Myth: If I marry the right person I won't ever have to be patient
  • Love creates enough space for the other person
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KIND

  • Love is considerate.
  • What the other person feels
  • What the other person desires
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Does Not Envy

Envy: If I don't feel good about myself I can't allow you to feel good about your self

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DOES NOT BOAST

  • Does not one up or brag.
  • Decide to allow the other person to win
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DOES NOT DISHONOR

  • Never does anything that creates regret
  • Does not behave disgracefully
  • Dishonorably or indecently.

Not Self Seeking

Two self seeking people in a relationship will suck the life out of each other and the romance is gone in an instant.

1 Corinthians 13:11

When I was a child I talked like a child, thought like a child, reasoned like a child. When I became a man I put the ways of childhood behind me.

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Are you the person, the person you are looking for, is looking for?

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It's not all about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person

Happily ever after has nothing to do with finding the right person. It has everything to do with becoming the right person.

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