Version 2 of 5 FERTILITY SHIFTS WEBINAR
Published on Mar 22, 2017
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PRESENTATION OUTLINE
Conscious Fertility
“Why IVF Fails: The Five Steps our Clients Use to Fall Pregnant the Peaceful Way, Using Neuroscience Principles when IVF has failed”
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This is for anyone under 44yrs with "unexplained infertility" who has tried IVF and it hasn't worked
IN THE NEXT 60 MINUTES…
How to use neuroscience principles to get your fertility hormones working for you rather than against you - Without having to ‘think positively’ all the time.
Why male fertility is just as important and why the doctors don't talk about this.
IN THE NEXT 60 MINUTES…
How to get your energy back (this is vital for maximum fertility), without going tee-total and eating nothing but broccoli.
How to have a baby without going bankrupt from IVF, taking your temperatures every day, and putting your life on hold.
IN THE NEXT 60 MINUTES…
How to reconnect with your partner while avoiding the 'blame game'.
MY PROMISE TO YOU...
A STEP BY STEP STRATEGY TO FALL PREGNANT WHILE KEEPING YOUR SANITY
THERE IS NOTHING FOR SALE
BUT I DO HAVE A VERY COOL GIFT FOR YOU...
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
- Do you have pangs of guilt after you learn a friend is pregnant, and your first reaction is “Why not me?”
- Do you dread going to parties in case somebody asks "I see you're not drinking, are you pregnant?"
- Men - do you yearn to help your partner but you just don't know how?
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DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
- Do you know deep down that compulsively trying to work out exactly when you're ovulating is putting a big strain on your relationship?
- Do you lie awake at night thinking "Have I left it too late? What if I never get to have a child?"
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DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
- Are you putting your life and your career on hold because each month you're thinking "What if this is the month I get pregnant"?
- Are you sick of spending thousands on IVF, only to come out with nothing to show except a huge bill, and feeling physically exhausted and emotionally drained?
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DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'VE TRIED EVERYTHING, AND YOU FIND YOURSELF WONDERING IF IT'S EVER GOING TO HAPPEN?
ONCE YOU MAKE THE SHIFTS...
- You're going to have complete control over your emotional well-being, your physical health and your fertility.
- You'll have your brain and your fertility hormones working for you, rather than against you.
- You'll feel the joy and spontaneity of being with your partner again - Just like when you first started dating.
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ONCE YOU MAKE THE SHIFTS...
- You'll realise that your fertility never really was "unexplained", it's just that all the experts were focusing just on one piece of the jigsaw.
- You'll have the support of a like minded, nurturing community.
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"It took years and years to fall pregnant... I'm elated - I have a family"
THE ONE THING YOU NEED TO KNOW...
There are five simple shifts you need to make to finally become a mother, while taking the strain off yourself and getting your energy back.
I'm going to walk you through EXACTLY how to make those shifts today.
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WHO I AM
15 years experience in natural fertility, with 67% success rate for couples with "unexplained infertility".
Degree in Neuroscience from University College London.
Featured in Psychologies magazine, the Daily Mail and Top Santé magazine
DISCOVERING THE 5 SHIFTS...
THE 5 SHIFTS
There are 5 key shifts you must make to get pregnant, while enjoying more energy and peace within yourself.
I'm going to walk you though all 5 of them in this session.
LET'S PUT FERTILITY TO ONE SIDE
BE MORE SELFISH
On an airplane they tell you to put your own oxygen mask on first before helping others.
You must fill your own cup first.
BE MORE SELFISH
In order to create new life you need to feel nurtured and alive within yourself.
Just like the rest of nature you need to cultivate the right conditions to thrive.
Think about a tree. It needs the right conditions to bear fruit. If you don't give your body the energy and abundance it needs, you're stay stuck in this viscious cycle of "trying" - taking temperatures, ovulation kits, eating only healthy food. Spending your free time reading fertility forums. With lot of things in life that works. eg. work. Here we need a different approach. Life is giving you an oportunity to learn a new way of being. We've all heard stories or women who gave up "trying" and or went for adoption, and that's when they fell pregnant. One you're going to look back and realise that this terrible period of your life needed to happen in order for you to go deeply into yourself and find the inner resounces - peace.
THE MIRROR
It's easy to put off your happiness until later in the future.
If you want to attract abundance of any kind in your life, you need to feel it now.
AMRIT & NIKIL
AMRIT (38) was diagnosed with low ovarian reserve. Trying for 2 years.
Within weeks of working with me she was enjoying her life in a whole new way. Her family noticed a big change in her personality.
After 3 months she fell pregnant naturally.
GET NEUROSCIENCE ON YOUR SIDE
SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH
Stress shown to reduce IVF success rates in 36% of couples.
Reducing stress has direct impact on the proteins in lining of uterus, involved in implantation.
Journal of Human Reproduction - "Conception much more likely to occur in those months when couples feeling 'good', happy and relaxed."
FIGHT OR FLIGHT
Chronic stress causes the release of stress hormones such as cortisol.
Cortisol acts on the brain (pituitary glad). It disrupts the release of hormones from the pituitary gland.
The hormones that get disrupted include the reproductive hormones.
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Stress inhibits the release of the reproductive hormones FSH and LH.
In Men this interferes with the production of sperm.
FIGHT OR FLIGHT
Protection mechanism, designed by evolution
High adrenaline = low progesterone (uterus lining)
Nothing to do with "stop trying".
DO LESS TO GET MORE
DO LESS TO GET MORE
Small hinges swing big doors.
Pareto's principle
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DO LESS TO GET MORE
Energy goes to the vital organs first - Eg. the heart and lungs.
If your vital energy is depleted, your reproductive organs won't function at full capacity.
THE OLD WAY
- Hormone injections
- Operation to collect your eggs
- Take 100 different supplements
- Scheduled lovemaking
- Daily temperature checks at 6.00am
- Ovulation testing
- 10 different blood tests
- Elimination of 'goodies' or treat foods
NEW WAY
- Master your state.
- Get your energy back.
- Reconnect with your partner again.
NEW WAY
Hormones working for you instead of against you.
Become a happy, healthy mother.
DOES THIS MAKE SENSE?
THE NEW WAY
80/20 OF NUTRITION
Restriction is not the solution.
Most people think it's all about cutting out the bad stuff. No alch, no sugar, no fat, no cake, not fun! Actually if 80% of the time you're giving your body certain foods and supplements in their natural state that are extremely high in the right nutrients. Guess what, you can get away the odd piece of cake. In fact stressing about every little piece of chocolate and cake is a sure way to increase stress hormones and reduce your fertility.
COST OF IVF
Average cost of one cycle of IVF $12,400
"I wanted to know I'd done everything I could, even if it meant going bankrupt"
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MICHELLE'S STORY
Age 38, "unexplained infertility"
2 unsuccessful rounds of IVF.
Physically and emotionally drained.
MICHELLE'S STORY
Came to me for help with 3rd IVF cycle.
Within weeks she was feeling less stressed and more energised than she'd felt in years.
Fell pregnant naturally within 2 months of working with me.
So, now at this point, we know that we need to put fertility to one side, get neuroscience on our side, and do less to get more.
Now let's look at how to reconnect with your partner and get the support you need, so can you have a baby without losing your mind.
RECONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER
RECONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER
Research: 47,500 Danish women
Those who didn't have a child after treatment, were three times more likely to divorce or end cohabitation with their partner, than those who did.
RECONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER
Financial stress of IVF and the hormonal reactions, the side-effects of drugs, having to take time off work, and the pressure and risk of it not working.
...Pushes couples to the end of their tether.
And that's just the IVF.
RECONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER
What's "Ovulation O'clock" doing to your relationship?
GET THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
EVERYTHING I'VE SAID IS USLESS UNLESS...
GET THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
Research: The presence of social support associated with decreased stress responsiveness.
Cortisol levels suppressed by social support.
EVERYTHING I'VE SAID IS USLESS UNLESS...
GET THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
If you surround yourself only with people of the old mindset, you're not going to make the shifts you need.
In 5 years time, you'll find yourself in exactly the same place you're in now.
EVERYTHING I'VE SAID IS USLESS UNLESS...
GET THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
Or you can surround yourself with a supportive, caring community of right-thinking, life-affirming people...
Standing with you, and spurring you on to make the right choices.
EVERYTHING I'VE SAID IS USLESS UNLESS...
GET THE SUPPORT YOU NEED
I can't tell you this will guarantee your success.
I can tell you, if don't do this you are tying your arm behind your back.
Why make life more difficult?
EVERYTHING I'VE SAID IS USLESS UNLESS...
ANNA AND LUDO
ANNA AND LUDO
At age 43, doctors advised her to give up trying despite "unexplained infertility".
Stressful job - answering 150 emails/day, even on her days off.
Started to feel "more acceptance and calm and positivity".
Having tried for 3 years, Anna was shocked to fall pregnant after 6 months of working with me.
Sum up - so we can see link between stress and infertility. Doctor knows this but has no actual system to deal with it. Not just a case of "don't think about it"
- Speaking of which...
- Speaking of which...
TODAY I PROMISED...
How to share your fertility journey with a supportive, caring community of people, without any fear of judgement.
How to use neuroscience principles to get your fertility hormones working for you rather than against you - Without having to ‘think positively’ all the time.
TODAY I PROMISED YOU...
How to get your energy back (this is vital for maximum fertility), without going tee-total and eating nothing but broccoli.
How to have a baby without going bankrupt from IVF, taking your temperatures every day, and putting your life on hold.
TODAY I PROMISED YOU…
How to reconnect with your partner while avoiding the 'blame game'.
WHAT YOU NEED TO FALL PREGNANT...
- Put fertility to one side.
- Get Neuroscience working for you.
- Do less to get more.
- Reconnect with your partner.
- Get the support you need.
NOW YOU HAVE A CHOICE
[I've taught you all this stuff. You can either take info get and forget all about it... It can be just another webinar where you get some nice ideas and just forget about it. If you do that, I can tell you right now, you're going ot stay stuck, and exactly where you are. YOu know why you're on this webinar. If you cam to this webinar, you came here for a reason. And I believe it's because you know, the way your'es approaching getting pregnant is not working. So you now have a choice. You can take this information, and you can pass it by, and stay stuck, and continues to struggle for the next year or 5 years, or 10 years, or until your body or your relationship collapses. I know someone who did 9 rounds of IVF, and ended up with a rare brain disorder, which she put down to the drugs and the stress of IVF. In the end, she decided her health was more important than struggling through more rounds of IVF. She was lucky to survive. If you want to take your health and your fertility to the next level, If you want this to be the year when you finally put yourself first, and give yourself what you really need to become a mother, while freeing yourself from burden and stress and while experiencing the joy you once had when you first met your husband, while being supported by a caring community of like minded people. If that's what you want, then here's what I have for you...
HOW I CAN HELP...
My team and I have set aside some time to talk to you about how you can apply these ideas to your situation starting TODAY.
The cost: FREE.
I just gave you the broad strokes. I showed you how this is done in very broad strokes. I gave you these 5 big shifts. But, the truth is that everyone's different. And you need to know how to apply these shifts to your life. So if that's what you want to do, we're more than happy to get on the phone with you and explain to you exactly what the next steps are for you to do that. The cost of doing this is absolutely free. We do this totally free of charge, but here's the catch, this is not for everybody.
WHO IS THIS FOR...
You must be absolutely committed to being totally honest with yourself about your health and wellbeing.
You must be totally committed to a natural and spiritual approach to maximising your health and your fertility.
You must be prepared to take a look in the mirror and honestly admit to yourself your stress levels, and how thin you've been stretching yourself.
I don't doubt your commitment to having a baby, but not everyone listening to this is going to be ready to look inside and be vulnerable and courageous enough to admit they're struggling.
I don't doubt your commitment to having a baby, but not everyone listening to this is going to be ready to look inside and be vulnerable and courageous enough to admit they're struggling.
WHY WE'RE DOING THIS...
On the call, we'll help you get total clarity about exactly what is causing your infertility and the exact steps you should take to remedy the situation.
If you want help and you're a good fit, we might invite you to become one of the new clients we'll take on this month.
I'll help you figure out what is causing your infertility. There is no such things as unexplained - it just hasn't been explained yet. It may be stress, it may be your energy levels. We'll uncover this in the call"
IF WE WORK TOGETHER...
We'll put you through the same programme we put our successful clients through. The programme is designed to provide your sanity and your life back, so that the chance of you falling pregnant in the next 6 months is vastly improved. In our practise, 67% of couples with "unexplained infertility" fall pregnant within 6 months.
You'll get to connect with a group of like minded individuals, within a supportive community.
Many of our patients say their partner hardly recognises them, they're so relaxed after a month.
consciousfertility.co.uk/breakthrough
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"I didn’t go in thinking I’m going to conceive, this is going to work. Because I thought, I’m the kind of person for whom, typically it won’t work. What kept me going was not the idea I would have a Ludo (her baby’s name), but it was the fact that it was so healthy for me, for my physical health.
My mum died young from a stress related cancer. She was very, very stressed and masochistic and felt criticised and all of the things that applied to me. And suddenly I felt that it was doing me good - Mentally and physically to be able to accept myself.” Anna
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