During the Victorian era, gender roles were strict and all were expected to follow them, men and women coexisting in "Separate Spheres".
Each sex was expected to follow the "natural characteristics" of their gender, such as women being nurturing and weak, while men were strong and dependable.
Women were to be groomed for marriage. Everything they did was to be in line of what was expected of them from society such as being small, docile, polite, agreeable, yet well rounded.
Women were also expected to be able to play an instrument (typically the piano), sing, and know bits of a respectable foreign language.
All that a woman owned became her husband's property once married.
Godfrey fulfills his expectations of a man by being social within his community and seeking a woman of high class.
Franklin fulfills his expectations of a man by being well educated but almost too well so, having different views than most Englishmen because of his travels.
Religion was a huge part of daily life in this age. All respected men and women were expected to worship God and follow his ways of life. It was considered a sin to have intercourse before marriage.