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today:

• Identity & Naming Things
• Stereotype
• Intent vs. Impact
• Healthy Relationships
• Consent & Respect

COURAGE

BEFORE WE START

• The Vegas Rule
• Assume best intent
• Encourage each other
• Be courageous

the drew.

The you.

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We are made

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CHOOSE WISELY

definitions are crucial

sex v. gender

lifestyle
preference
orientation
identity
expression

straight
lesbian
gay
bisexual
transgender
queer

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DON'T BOX ME IN

relationships

"Assumptions are the termites of relationships."

Stereotypes

phobias & isms

• homophobia
• transphobia
• heterosexism
• cissexism

how do stereotypes affect:

• gender identity
• sexual orientation
• relationships

impact

IRL?

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POWER

Healthy Relationships

no two relationships are the same.

CONSENT

Consent + capacity + age = LEGAL = awesome

empathy vs. sympathy

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

• Supportive
• Respectful
• Communicative
• Thoughtful
• Honest

respect yourself
respect others

question assumptions
understand their needs
empower
educate
refer

now you know.
(so you can't un-know)

ONE THING

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